So a lot has changed since I last updated my BLOG.

I dumped my girlfriend; I just found it was too much to be with someone that I was not really in love with. You can lie to yourself only for so long then you have to admit that things are not working out. That and the fact that the way she reacted to my last blog update made it clear that she was a selfish, immature, needy & really disturbed person and the less I have to do with her the better for me and my kids.

Those 2 girls of mine went through a lot the past few months. The divorce and not having a decent place to live has put a huge strain on them. Even after all that has happened the 11 and 16 year olds seem to somehow still push on and managed to pass their respective grades at school.

After the passing of my mom, I made a concerted effort to repair the damaged relationship between the ex-wife and myself. I came to the realisation that what we had was solid. I was the one who messed it all up. I looked beyond our marriage and for excitement. I found this but not the connection and love I had. So the end of January the girls and my ex-wife moved in with me and we got remarried in February 3^rd.

Now for the strange lash back. I have many “friends” and family that was quite okay with me screwing around and having one huge party when I was cheating on my wife and even after the divorce. Now that I have done the RIGHT thing for my family and myself I am getting something weird. Some of the friends have become friends with the ex-girlfriend. As my friends and family I don’t expect them to defriend her or reject her but what I don’t expect is for them to give me a hard fucking time because I have corrected my wrongs, got my family back on track. Who the fuck are they to judge or even to have an opinion.

Here is the way I see it. If I was on the other hand of this situation I would not have an opinion at all. Every man has to make decisions for them and do what right for THEM. So here is my advice to those who does not know all the facts.

I dumped her because I was not in love with her. I dumped her because she is a fucking idiot. Why would I want to stay with someone that fucked my brother and ran around town telling everyone she did? I don’t mind that she is a whore I do mind that she tells everyone she is and expect me to be okay with it.